Things people do wrong that destroys relationship.

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I accept the statement of Pastor Eric Obigho as true that ‘Man was created first for relationship before responsibility.’ If all that you do in life is carry out responsibilities without developing relationships, you will end up a failure and your memory will fade away when you die. Apart from your relationship with God (that is if you are smart enough to accept that a Creator exists), the second most vital relationship in your life is the person you will get married/you are married too.

There are things that people do wrong that end up breaking these vital relationship in their lives; my desire is that you will not make the same mistake. There is a therefore a need for you to be knowledgeable, because relationships don’t just succeed, it requires the individuals involve in it to do things right. Here are five things that I have over the years observe destroy relationships…

Wrong use of words- Words are powerful; they have the ability to create and destroy. I believe strongly that a large number of relationships that broke were because of the use of foul words by either/both parties involved. One of the relationships I broke up with before I got married was because the lady in question used a foul word on me that my ego couldn’t tolerate, so I moved on.

Men are egocentric by nature, they can’t stand words by their partners which are aimed at comparing them in a demeaning manner with another person and they can’t stand their partners using authoritative words on them. While their female counterpart can’t stand the use of insultive words.

You need to learn to use your discretion; as a lady in being honest to your partner about your past, you don’t go telling him that twenty men had slept with you. I believe that some of the troubles between wives and their in-laws after marriage stems from the men they were dating not managing information about their families properly.

Premarital sex- Sheriff Shomade said, ‘There is nothing as sweet as sexual intercourse (when it is done outside of the confine of marriage) on the face of the earth, but it’s a perilous slide to destruction.’ Every time you allow anyone have the attention of your genital that you are not married to, you loose something. One of the things you will loose is the foundation of a successful relationship which is trust. I read a statistics once that states that over 51% of couples who are divorced were sexually involved with one another before marriage.

Sexual intercourse outside of the confine of marriage may look harmless, but it’s really destructive in the long run on the relationship that you are trying to keep. I will like to share with every lady that will read this article this truth, men will likely to get married to women that they trust in the area of sexual intercourse than the ones that they have feelings people call love for. I also want every lady involve in sexual intercourse to prove me wrong, that if you stop allowing your partner from getting sexually involve with you again, the relationship will naturally disintegrate. When you allowed him to get sexually involved with you, you shifted his attention from you to your genitals and permit me to say this, most men love free non committed sex.

Being irresponsible- People want a partner that is responsible in the area of productivity; we all are proud when we can say to others how well our partners are doing. No one wants to marry/stay with a leach after marriage.